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Featured image of post Seven Years at Relias: Three Lessons That Transformed My Career Journey
Career Development Personal Growth Engineering Leadership

Seven Years at Relias: Three Lessons That Transformed My Career Journey

Seven years into my software engineering career, here are the three transformative lessons that helped me overcome self-doubt and embrace my technical identity.

Oct 01, 2025
4 minute read
Featured image of post When Your Nervous System Says "Run": The Courage to Give People Who Scare You a Chance
Leadership Personal Development

When Your Nervous System Says "Run": The Courage to Give People Who Scare You a Chance

Why engaging with discomfort when meeting challenging people can transform your leadership, build meaningful relationships, and teach you invaluable lessons about yourself.

Sep 18, 2025
4 minute read
Featured image of post The Hidden Truth Behind "Having It All": A Critical Look at Lean In Culture
Work-Life Balance Women in Tech

The Hidden Truth Behind "Having It All": A Critical Look at Lean In Culture

Examining the dangerous myth of "having it all" through corporate experiences that reveal the gap between Lean In philosophy and workplace reality for working parents.

Aug 18, 2025
5 minute read
Featured image of post Five Managerial Archetypes That Shaped My Leadership Style (And What I Learned From Each)
Leadership Management Career Development Workplace Culture

Five Managerial Archetypes That Shaped My Leadership Style (And What I Learned From Each)

Discover five distinct managerial archetypes and their impact on leadership development. Learn what works, what doesn't, and how to balance different leadership approaches for maximum effectiveness.

Aug 04, 2025
6 minute read
Featured image of post The Leadership Paradox: Why Showing Your Unhappiness Makes You a Better Leader
Career Development Leadership Management Workplace Culture

The Leadership Paradox: Why Showing Your Unhappiness Makes You a Better Leader

Discover why expressing frustration as a leader isn't weakness—it's strategic communication that drives team growth and accountability.

Jul 21, 2025
5 minute read
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